“ Treat those who are good with goodness, and also treat those who are not good with goodness. Thus goodness is attained. Be honest to those who are honest, and be also honest to those who are not honest. Thus honesty is attained. ”
Ditto for Love.
If you learn to only love all things you will attain True Love.
Simple concept for us to grasp, yet often difficult for us to achieve constantly.
Try DO IT anyway.
A point to bear in mind to help in this: Our emotions in response to things are temporary, impermanent and, while not always under our total control, can be overcome by our rational thoughts and can be improved by being at peace with, and accepting of, all worldy events as being impermanent ones that must also pass.
Love is permanent and brings us many benefits – if we will it to be so.